Actor Vu Thanh - Left home with his mistress of 4 years, had his own child, and was still forgiven by his wife when he returned

Vu Thanh is a veteran actor from the South, participating in many dramas, theater plays, cai luong, ... In addition to his film career, which is remembered by many people, he is also admired for having a family. Peaceful, happy family. But before having a perfect marriage, he and his wife also went through a turbulent period.

Artist Vu Thanh's real name is Luong Ngoc Thanh, born in 1959 in Ho Chi Minh City. He is a theater actor and screenwriter. He is a member of the Ho Chi Minh City Theater Association, a member of the Vietnam Theater Association.

He entered the profession in 1978 as a singer of the Dong Thap Province Music and Dance Troupe along with singers Che Linh, Nhat Truong, Kim Dung, Trang My Dung...

After that, artist Vu Thanh turned to comedian and alternately participated in art troupes of Vinh Long, Vung Tau, Quang Ngai, Hanoi, Youth Drama troupe and Ho Chi Minh City Drama troupe. In 2000, he began writing scripts for television stations and theatre. At the same time, he also acted in many television series.

He has been married to singer Le Hai (born in 1948) for more than 30 years and has one child. In order to have a happy family like the present, Vu Thanh and his wife Le Hai went through a turbulent period, lost to each other by a third person. It was the tolerance and generosity of the wife that brought the marriage back.

4 years left with a mistress

Sharing in the program "Perfect Puzzle", Le Hai revealed that her husband had disappeared with his lover of 4 years.

She said: "It was a very difficult time for the couple's life. He wanted to perform for a month at the invitation of the show to earn some money to take care of his family. At that time I was very busy with business, so I also agreed to let him go for a month."

During that one month, Vu Thanh only sent back a letter, promising that one day he would take his wife and children to Da Lat to play. "My son looked forward to hearing that, but he did not come back. Then he disappeared for four years," she said.

Le Hai confessed, after a month did not see Vu Thanh return, she also wanted to find her husband. However, when the child was still young, she could not leave him and go to look for him, she also had to work to take care of the child's education.

She said: "In the past, there was no phone to call easily like now, it's very difficult to find it myself. If my husband still thinks about me, I'll come back, but I don't have the means or conditions to find it." Le Hai also said that another reason why she did not go to find her husband was because he knew he was living a very happy life with his lover.

"At that time, I was very sad. I felt that I had no fault in my married life or for my family. But I thought, what is mine is mine. Because if the man would no longer love and deny it. If you accept your family, you can't hold on no matter how much you hold on to it now, "- Le Hai shared.

Facing that situation, Le Hai affirmed that she herself also decided to give up this marriage. She said: "At first I hated him very much. Because if my husband and I quarrel and then he leaves, I don't get angry. But I am the one who is very worried about him.

He went away for a month, I packed my clothes for a month, then medicine, oil, wind... I prepared everything one by one. So I think, if a man is so worried but still doesn't think about his wife and children, that's okay."

Tell your husband to bring his own child to raise

For his part, looking back at the past, Vu Thanh confessed that he regretted it very much. He said that after living with his mistress for a while, he found that his personality was not suitable. In addition, he felt sorry for his wife because when his biological mother died, he did not know, and Le Hai still took his son to Saigon to mourn.

The things she did made him feel even more remorseful and wanted to return to her to make up for it. But far away, he did not make money, so there was no way to return.

Then the opportunity also came when Vu Thanh was invited by a group leader to sing, he immediately accepted and decided to return to his wife and children on this trip. When Vu Thanh left without saying goodbye, he also suddenly returned without warning.

Le Hai recounted: "When he returned to Vung Tau, he did not dare to enter the house, but went to a close friend's house and asked to take him. At that time, I looked at him very far away and no longer had any feelings. I Ask him how he's doing like an unfaithful friend."

She added that during the time when Vu Thanh was still living with her family, he was very good, so he was very popular with his wife's family. After listening to him tell about the time he lived with his mistress and was treated badly by her, Le Hai became more and more resentful. She consulted everyone in her family, her sisters all loved him very much and wished she would give him another chance.

Vu Thanh also added that, after the two returned to each other, life was very happy, there were no conflicts or quarrels because Le Hai thought that what had happened in the past would not be repeated.

"I regret what I've done, so ever since I came back, I always remind myself to fulfill my duties as a husband and father to make up for my family," Vu Thanh confided.

Vu Thanh also said that what made him love his wife even more was when Le Hai knew he had a child with a lover, but she not only didn't hate the baby but also wanted him to bring his own child to adopt.

"If you want to raise the baby, bring it home and I will raise it" - Vu Thanh was touched by his wife's selflessness.

Vu Thanh said he is still in contact with his second wife and son. Accordingly, every time his son comes in from Hanoi to play, his wife still takes care of everything from food and sleep to her husband's children.

Le Hai also affirmed that, after returning, Vu Thanh is a very wonderful husband. Up to now, Vu Thanh has always fulfilled the role of husband and father. He is willing to give all his money to his wife, never leaving home, regardless of party or birthday, he always asks: "Do you still have rice?". This makes her feel happy, even though she is tired, seeing her husband happy and encouraging also makes her more alive. Because of her husband's condescension and concern and his wife's tolerance, the marriage that has been going on for more than 4 decades makes the audience feel loved.

However, the couple also sometimes "speak up". Artist Vu Thanh is very fond of using the phone, so many times he missed work, had to take a bath at night, causing his wife "headache" to find a way to remind her.

At the age of 63, the male artist asserts himself very correctly with the saying: "Behind a successful man is a woman's shadow".

Artist Vu Thanh is now enjoying middle-aged happiness after making mistakes, he and his wife are a showbiz couple loved by the audience.

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