Cuong Seven - Vu Ngoc Anh: "Parents forbid cohabiting, but we think this is reasonable"

Cuong Seven and Vu Ngoc Anh have sincere sharing about their 7-year love story, revealing interesting details about the wedding, which will be held at the end of July in Hanoi.

What does Cuong Seven feel until the moment he is about to become a husband and wife, he will realize in the other party?

- Cuong Seven: That is the thought of love. Before, I loved each other, but I never asked what Ngoc Anh's love thought was. Actually, Ngoc Anh is still the same in my eyes, but now I have discovered one more truth. That's when love Ngoc Anh said that while love never shows 100%, only 50 - 60%, the rest will be kept for yourself.

Is Vu Ngoc Anh the woman in his dream model to be his wife?

- Cuong Seven: Absolutely not! Boys always have fantasies about a role model for themselves. Once upon a time, I dreamed that my wife would be the woman of the family, knowing how to take care of her husband, cook, and take care of everything. That is the idea in the North, almost every family is like that. However, Ngoc Anh is quite the opposite.

However, since I came to Ho Chi Minh City to work, that way of thinking has gradually become more open. I think that's only part of it, it's important for both of you to have fun and not force the woman to be like this. Up to now, I don't have any standards anymore, just need to be. Housework can be handled by a maid, so that women have time to relax and enjoy with their husbands.

Changing that mindset, what have you realized?

- Cuong Seven: I changed a lot when I met people from the North and with people from the South. Each region has its own charms. In Ho Chi Minh City, the weather is quite mild, but Hanoi is too harsh. Because of this, it also partly affects the personality of the person. Now that I have reconciled the two regions' personalities, I'm open-minded and don't judge much. If I keep forcing others to follow my personal thoughts, while I do not change myself, it will make other people no longer feel happy. In general, I put pressure on them and create the energy they will put pressure on me.

Before he changed his mind, did Vu Ngoc Anh feel angry and uncomfortable?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Actually, he doesn't have any principles for me too much, nor does he force me to do anything. Whatever I want or like, Mr. Cuong also buys it, for me that is being pampered. Don't force me, just give good advice.

How successful is Cuong Seven's advice for Ngoc Anh?

- Cuong Seven: For Ngoc Anh, advice is more effective than banning, because with Ngoc Anh's personality, the more you ban, the more you do. The things Ngoc Anh consulted, she actually made a decision, but asking if it was okay or not is another story. To evaluate the level of listening to advice, on a 10-point scale, Ngoc Anh will get 4 - 5, the rest must be done by yourself, and then conclude that what I said before is correct.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Basically, the fact that I consulted Mr. Cuong was also a great growth in my life. Because before, I rarely asked anyone, I just wanted to do it.

Having a fiancé is a very attractive guy, both in appearance and personality. What did you do to keep this guy?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: I also create my own attraction and so the two of them attract each other. If I keep keeping people, I lose all my charm, so I can't keep the man.

Both are celebrities, each with their own distinct charms, no one is inferior. So what makes these two famous people harmonize, drop their egos and become a couple until now?

- Cuong Seven: One of the lucky things for us is that neither of us think of ourselves as celebrities. We don't think about it, because when we get home, we can be ourselves. Never thought I was more famous or that Ngoc Anh was more famous. Never had that thought. Even now I think I'm not famous myself.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Going home together, we were like two children, not keeping our egos together. Because with my lover, if I still keep my ego, it will be very difficult. We are not affected by those.

Regarding the upcoming wedding, what made you both come to this decision?

- Cuong Seven: We got married because of the decision of both, not because of family, having children or any other compelling reason. Of course, my family always regrets, I am the eldest son, and outside of the North, every family wants their children to get married soon. But now I'm bored, so I don't regret it anymore. Our marriage is completely voluntary.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: We decided to get married just earlier this year, not under pressure from the family. Of course, there are still sharing and advice from parents, we can realize many things from those advices. To make the decision to get married at this time, it's all because of loving each other, wanting to stick together so that we can build together more great things, for the future of both of us.

Once known as a fake movie couple, when the movie ended, when did the two fall in love with each other and become lovers?

- Cuong Seven: After 8 months of finishing the movie, Ngoc Anh and I had feelings for each other. I also shared, when I first met Ngoc Anh, I didn't think this was the woman I would fall in love with. Ngoc Anh's personality, thinking, and work at that time were not suitable for me. But after learning, talking and I actively expressed my feelings for Ngoc Anh, I found that Ngoc Anh is a very emotional person. Although the appearance is a bit "playful", but the two reconcile quite a lot of each other's personalities.

Loving each other for 7 years and living together, what is the daily life of both Cuong Seven and Vu Ngoc Anh in the near-marriage period?

- Cuong Seven: Every day we eat and drink in the morning, then we will separate to go to work. I take care of mine and Ngoc Anh will take care of hers. One day we didn't see each other until 11 o'clock at night. But when we don't have our own business, we stick together all day.

How do you both care when you are too busy with personal affairs?

- Cuong Seven: Then just texting, calling to ask each other. However, the frequency is Ngoc Anh for me more. Since I am a working person, I will be very focused, to the point that I forget everything.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Whoever remembers first will text, we always balance. Sometimes he texts a lot, sometimes it's me.

Living together for 4 years, Ngoc Anh has realized what is special about the other side?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Mr. Cuong is a very principled person, a bit stiff and cold. At first, I thought it was not suitable, but when I came into contact, I found that the way to love was quite similar. He's right is right, wrong is wrong, a bit serious. However, it is just to make life better, not to impose on others.

What about Cuong Seven and Vu Ngoc Anh that they both respect and admire the most?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: The personality that I respect the most is that Mr. Cuong is very persistent, trying to pursue a certain job or path that he has done. That is a trait that I also have to learn, because I am a very impatient and persistent person. When I was around, I learned those traits. He is quite mature, but when next to me, he is like a baby, quite cute.

Another thing is that Mr. Cuong is quite similar to my father, if something happens, he will sit back and talk slowly and advise. I like that, advise but ban me, I can't stand it.

- Cuong Seven: The thing that I appreciate the most is the way Ngoc Anh treats his family and the people around him. Do everything for the sake of the mind, think for everyone, not think for yourself. Doesn't want to do anything to harm others and spends a lot of time with family.

Love each other for 7 years and have lived together like a husband and wife, so how will life be different if you go to the wedding?

- Cuong Seven: In my personal opinion, don't try to imagine, there are things you don't know before, you shouldn't imagine. I am a person who lives for the present, what about the future if it happens, then it will be resolved. And since we've solved a lot of things together in the past 7 years, I think other problems we'll have to deal with.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Personally, I will probably have to be more women, because I have to build a family environment, prepare for the next steps of a home, such as picking up a baby. I have to get used to it, build a lifestyle, culture, family atmosphere, can't be like two children together, have to cultivate.

His family is quite traditional, has cohabitation for 4 years with Vu Ngoc Anh ever been opposed?

- Cuong Seven: Actually, no one's parents agree, no one wants their children to cohabit before getting married. However, for me, this is quite reasonable. I have a few friends, or young people, they just get married and break up. As for me and Ngoc Anh, getting married is also on paper. Living like the present, we also think it is a way to show the real person, good and bad sides are shown to each other. At that time, both will feel whether it is suitable, compatible to live together or not.

- Vu Ngoc Anh: I have never lived with a boyfriend, Cuong is the first. At that time, I didn't think much of it, I just saw the two of them going back and forth together. Feel comfortable, stick together, then stop living together for convenience.

Vu Ngoc Anh wants to be a bride after marrying Cuong Seven? What do you think about the life of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: Both husband and wife live in Saigon, so they do not live with their parents. In the future, I also want when my parents are older and I have more conditions, I want my parents to live next to me. At least when there are children, having grandparents takes care of is the best, to help. But still hope that both of them have their own house, and then their parents have their own house next to them, that will be more convenient. As artists, we need a creative space, go early to late at night, so we also want to live separately.

- Cuong Seven: Actually, I also want to welcome my parents to live together. But it is a bit difficult, because in addition to the North, the family also has to take care of worshiping grandparents. The parents are also old, the surroundings are familiar, and there are many friends in the North. Now it's hard to enter a new environment, just because of the children. I think it's best to go in and out. I think if we manage to work remotely, my wife and I will definitely be in and out often.

Wish to bring parents to Ho Chi Minh City, have a separate house for the couple and for both parents. So what have you prepared for this?

- Cuong Seven: Actually, I have not prepared anything, just the plans and goals that we are aiming for. I also shared, I am now relaxing with my life too. Right now we need to work to achieve those plans. After we got married, we still lived in a rented house in Ho Chi Minh City.

About the upcoming wedding to be held in Hanoi, but having a lot of friends in Ho Chi Minh City, do you both plan to have another party here?

- Vu Ngoc Anh: We are also balancing, but because we have done one, we are also quite stressed, just want to rest and enjoy our honeymoon. We are quite careful about the concept, because we don't want Hanoi to do the same thing but come here to do the same. The wedding also has too many things to do, the time for the bride and groom's emotions is not available at the moment, because they are too busy and have to care about many things.

- Cuong Seven: I like to organize meals, a small party for intimate friends who can't attend, they will come to eat and drink. I don't want to organize a big wedding like a wedding in Hanoi anymore.

What is the wedding concept that you both choose?

- Cuong Seven: We try to harmonize, both traditional and modern, it is important that the guests come to the event to have fun. Wedding in Hanoi, there will also be guests who are adults, friends of parents. The couple will also invite their friends, we have to think about the scenario how everyone who comes will feel comfortable with the space we create.

We don't like to follow the crowd, the basics of the wedding will remain the same, but there will be something different, a bit personal and different from the usual weddings. That's what we consider the most.

Are you planning on having a baby yet? Are there any art products in common after marriage?

- Cuong Seven: Right now we have not thought about it, it is planned to be 1-2 years from now. Marriage is also just decided, having children is unlikely. In terms of art, we have a wedding song. As for individual art work, everyone else does it. In business, we have a model of working together, which is also being developed.

Thank you Cuong Seven and Vu Ngoc Anh for their sincere sharing above.

Vu Ngoc Anh confirmed to be on a flower car with Cuong Seven in July in Hanoi, releasing "playful" wedding photos Juni Nguyễn08:11:30 17/06/2023On the evening of June 16, at an event, singer and actress Vu Ngoc Anh officially announced that she and her boyfriend of 7 years Cuong Seven will be on a flower car in July. It is known that the wedding of the two will be held in Hanoi.