To Lam: The dancer is not afraid of discrimination, publicly getting engaged to his same-sex boyfriend

To Lam, also known by the name Adam Lam, is a face not unfamiliar to the public. He is a dancer, singer and has worked with A-list names in Vbiz today.

Adam Lam's real name is To Lam, born in 1991. Initially, he was known as a dancer. After a while, Adam Lam ventured into singing and achieved much success.

Adam Lam suddenly became famous after acting in the movie "Brilliant Kisses". In addition, Adam Lam is also a pioneer for men wearing high heels. Not only that, he also tried his hand at singing when participating in the show "The X Factor 2016".

Adam Lam quickly conquered the judges and audience with his strong voice, impressive costumes, and professional dancing ability in high heels. He is a student of singer Thanh Lam.

Accordingly, the male dancer officially released the album ADAM52 with 8 songs of 8 different genres composed by himself. He surprised everyone when he revealed that he had never studied composition but only wrote music by hand. Many times while driving, a good melody suddenly popped into his head, and he immediately pulled over to record it. Those melodies can be developed into complete songs or combined into songs.

ADAM52 includes 8 songs: Two carefree children, Vang I know how to love, Stone flower river, That's it, The flower palanquin robber, Same sound, Destiny song, Bong Lai. Adam Lam composes all his own songs in the genres Pop, Dubstep/House, Pop R&B, Pop Rock, Pop Ballad, Funk Pop, Trap,...

Even though his "brainchildren" are not well known to the audience, he said he still works hard to write new songs. "Who knows, maybe there will be a work that matches the audience's interests, that they will love and listen to. I'm not trying to find shows to sing, but will be the one creating music. I make products because I want to conquer my passion." as well as maintaining 'fire' for art," he said.

The artist said that in the early stages of contact with the Vietnamese music market, he released a single and performed, but the audience was not interested because "they didn't know who singer Adam Lam was, they only knew dancer To Lam". He said: "I applied to participate in large and small shows, but was rejected countless times by the show's hosts because they didn't believe I could sing or because of gender discrimination. However, I still persevered in finding my own path. me".

Adam Lam sings in many different genres to choose the appropriate music and style. However, Adam Lam has not yet made a mark on the market and cannot make a stable living thanks to music. Artists teach dance and become drag queens to earn extra income and maintain their passion.

Adam shared that his monthly income has to be divided among many things. Part of him pays the rent, the rest invests in costumes, stage gear as well as daily living expenses.

"I have about one or two singing shows a month, and the rest are dancing or teaching choreography. My income is not enough to invest in music. Sometimes, I am willing to spend 90% of my income to serve my needs. products, leaving only 10% for living expenses. I am willing to borrow billions of dollars to invest as much as possible to achieve the best results," he said.

Adam Lam feels that on his artistic path, besides his efforts, he is fortunate to receive a lot of help. In the past, he did not have enough experience and musical knowledge to know where to start and how to nurture his passion. Now he found the key to answer his questions.

Many colleagues commented that Adam Lam has a strange, unique voice. Singer Khanh Ngoc said she has been following Adam Lam's activities for a long time and admires his efforts and perseverance. Director Le Viet commented: "We used to work together in the dancing profession and talked about many things. For me, Adam Lam is always dedicated, creating his own mark."

Few people know that Adam Lam is the most representative face of the Vietnamese LGBT community. However, to be successful, he must constantly strive for his passion and dream.

He, like many other artists, has never hesitated to hide his true gender on and off the stage. The male singer confided: "Lam went through a very painful past. At that time, I was still a teenager and loved an older guy. During that time, people in society did not know much about LGBT and I understand third world people, so making that love story public was very difficult for me."

The story of the love between Dao Sung and the art-loving guest was told by Adam Lam in the MV Khuc of Destiny. Notably, the song contains content related to the love of the LGBT community and emphasizes gender prejudice in society. The boy dancing in high heels also shared his thoughts about receiving disrespectful comments on his personal Tiktok about gender issues.

When Adam Lam revealed his true gender to his family, he also received backlash. He chose to move out and constantly tried to change his perspective on the LGBT community. Up to now, he has had the companionship of his parents.

Then he had to face the scene of his ex-lover getting married, which haunted him and often appeared in his dreams. To relieve his pain, Adam Lam freely struggles with art, his true self, and wholeheartedly supports Vietnamese LGBT activities. In 2016, Adam Lam decided to publicly get engaged to his same-sex boyfriend.

Adam Lam surprised fans when he publicly announced his engagement to his same-sex boyfriend on his personal Facebook page. He did not forget to reveal that he and his boyfriend had known each other for 3 years, but it was not until that time that they accepted the invitation. Immediately after sharing, many friends came to congratulate Adam Lam for eternal happiness.

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