Minh Cuc "Go home, children": Giving birth to a child with cerebral palsy, broken family, sad life after roles

Familiar with the audience through the pitiful, fun, funny roles, but behind the roles, Minh Cuc makes the audience feel sorry for his miserable life. Broken marriage, sick children, Minh Cuc got up and tried to overcome difficulties.

Actor Minh Cuc was born in 1986, is a familiar face of the theater and drama stage in the northern region. After more than 15 years of artistic activities, she made a name for herself thanks to her roles in films such as Go Home, Taste of Friendship, Dou Tri...

Before Life is still beautiful, she was known to the audience through the roles of Xinh in the movie Go home, and Sam in the film Taste of Friendship. Close Xinh, a "cow-head with a hump-headed" gypsy in a market, Minh Cuc creates a dusty image and speaks impulsively. The character has many swinging scenes with Khai - a gambling addict (played by Trong Hung). With the role of Sam, she plays the role of a maid with many stories, often causing many funny situations.

On the screen, the characters she takes on all appear with a very happy and pitiful image, but few people know that in real life she is quite difficult. The actor had many events because his daughter Tu Minh had cerebral palsy, and the marriage soon broke up. After 13 years of raising a child alone, Minh Cuc told himself to be strong to support the baby.

In a rare experience of her daughter, Minh Cuc once shared: "About a week before my due time, I started having pain signaling labor. Going to the doctor, I was advised by doctors. I waited for a normal delivery Exactly 1 week later, I went to the hospital to give birth, but when I went to the hospital, because I couldn't contact anyone, I didn't have any pain, so everyone didn't feel rushed.

More than 5, 6 hours later, the doctors conducted a check and found that the amniotic fluid was no longer clear, but turned blue due to bacterial infection, because the baby had already passed meconium into the mother's womb. Immediately, the doctors ordered a caesarean section to "catch the baby". After the surgery, the baby was still pink and beautiful, but I was informed that due to the time of asphyxiation in the infected amniotic fluid for too long, all the organs in the baby's body were already infected.

Because of this accident, the immature organs in the baby's body cannot continue to mature after birth like other babies. It was concluded that the baby had just been born with liver failure, heart failure, and kidney failure. At 20 days old, the baby had a cardiac arrest because the heart valve could not close.

The mother and daughter were hospitalized together for 3 months to perform heart surgery. The surgery was successful, but the doctor told me that the baby's brain was too badly damaged, he couldn't grow up and develop normally.

When I brought my baby home from the hospital, I still half believed and half doubted because he was still healthy and developing normally. But by the 4th month, I feel my baby is slower than other babies. At the 6th month, when I took her to magnetic resonance imaging, I received the following results: one side of her brain atrophied due to several hours of asphyxiation, the brain was not supplied with enough oxygen.

Not long after her daughter was born, Minh Cuc continued to face the shock of marriage: "The worst thing is that when I received the news that my child was ill for a short time, I had to witness bad things again. My husband cracked, loving myself and my children, I decided to get a divorce and then take the child back to my mother's house.

In order to have money to take care of her children, in addition to her job at the Youth Theater, Minh Cuc used to work as a makeup artist and trade in leather goods. There was time, the actor took his children to treat all these doctors and other drugs. Later, the baby was concluded by a doctor at a large hospital that it was impossible to recover, Minh Cuc looked directly at the truth. She is happy because even though she can't speak or walk, she still shows her affection for her mother and loved ones through her eyes, smiles, and short sentences. Baby likes to watch movies mom plays, every time she hears her mother's voice, she laughs.

For many people in their twenties is the best time of their youth to experience and accumulate their own living capital. But for Minh Cuc himself, only 24 years old at that time, he decided to get married. And for her, that marriage was the result of impatience.

Minh Cuc confided: "As if there was an omen that I didn't realize. Before the wedding, we had an argument. I actively canceled everything, from the party at the restaurant to everything but my parents. My family is a Christian, so my parents attach great importance to marriage. They don't want their children to get divorced... That was the first time of the obstacle. At that time, the two sides were also harmonious and precious and I also did not want to divorce. give up".

Entering marriage when signs of breakup appeared from the early days, actor Minh Cuc accepted to heal for the sake of his family. However, the marriage could not be saved because the other side changed his mind.

The joy of welcoming the first daughter thought it would fill the pain of marriage, but it made Minh Cuc more difficulties and hardships when the child was born with a serious illness. However, not letting the sadness keep Minh Cuc from breaking down, she chose to accept and cope. She shared: "I only accept suffering because of my children".

After the divorce, Minh Cuc had a happy four-year love affair. Currently, she chooses to be single, with no intention of getting married or having more children to devote all her heart, energy and affection to Tu Minh. "If I don't love my child, no one will. I don't want to force someone to suffer the same situation as me, because they have the right to demand better things," the actress confided.

Minh Cuc confided more time to return to the TV series with the role of Xinh in Go home, her life seems to have turned to a new page. The actress admits her ambition is to be devoted to the audience not only on stage but also in dramas. "Even though it's just a small role, when the audience accepts and knows me more, why don't I develop to have more works," said the 8X actor.

Talking about future wishes, Minh Cuc confided: "Stable economy, favorable work, good health to take care of Tu Minh and his family. In the future, I don't know what will happen. I just hope my baby will be healthy, it's okay, it's okay for the rest of my life, as long as it's healthy, don't get sick.

Now, wherever you go, go there every day. As long as the child is with me, I must devote myself to my child, give all the best for him, because I don't know what day his life will come. Because children are sick like that, we have to love more. Because I have also been in groups of children with such problems, I do not know when the child will die, so I cannot predict what the future will bring to me.