Phuong Oanh's mother 'overwhelmed' OgeNus's mother, her son underestimated her daughter-in-law, fans were outraged?

Social media has been shaken by the mother-in-law – bride scandals in the past few days. Actor Phuong Oanh's mother was unexpectedly entangled in noise, while rapper OgeNus's mother caused a storm of public opinion. Heavy gender prejudices make netizens bored and argue fiercely.

When the prejudice of "respecting men and despising women" raises a wave of public opinion

The focus of the outrage fell on rapper OgeNus' mother after the livestream session on December 8. She did not hesitate to declare a point of view that made many people "shocked": "Boys with a past about women and girls are okay, but girls with a boys and girls past, throw them away". This statement was immediately seen as a cold water bucket on the current gender equality efforts. The underestimation of women's worth based on their emotional history, while unconditionally tolerating male indulgence, reveals an old, deviant mindset.

Not stopping there, the male rapper's mother also constantly uses words such as "rustic" and "clean" which are said to refer to TikToker CiiN – her son's rumored girlfriend. These strict, somewhat scrutinizing and imposing standards have pushed the relationship between the mother-in-law and the future bride into a tense confrontation. Under the posts, netizens simultaneously left harsh comments: "What era still holds such a 'throw-away' mindset?". Her excessive "frankness" not only puts pressure on her children but also inadvertently engraves the image of a difficult and extremely strict mother-in-law.

Deviant gender stereotypes: When women make it difficult for women

A short clip of only about 15 seconds recording Phuong Oanh's mother-in-law teaching her daughter-in-law quickly became the focus of laughter and tears, but behind that was extreme outrage. In the context of the family, this mother casually asked her daughter-in-law to... Accepting the mistake of "farting" of her mother-in-law in the crowd to prove that she is a person with meaning. This "oh my god" argument made the bride only cry because of frustration, and the online community "fell on their backs" because they couldn't believe that an absurd incident like a movie could exist in real life.

More significantly, attention is not only focused on the mother-in-law but also on the husband – the character who is considered the "source" of the tragedy. The image of the husband sitting with his arms crossed and listening to his mother curse his wife, sometimes even "making up" a few bad stories made the audience shudder. Many bitter people say that behind a harsh mother-in-law is always the figure of a weak husband. When the information that the bride was officially divorced was confirmed, a wave of "unprecedented" congratulations took place on social networking platforms: "I have never seen anyone divorce but the whole world is so happy. Congratulations on escaping hell!"

Don't let the prejudice of "Northern mother-in-law" become a barrier

The resonance of the above two stories has inadvertently re-ignited the old prejudices about the "Northern mother-in-law" – which was labeled as difficult, patriarchal and feudal. However, is it fair to take the deviant statement of an individual or an anonymous clip to attribute to all mothers-in-law in other regions? In fact, modern society is witnessing a drastic change in the mindset of parents.

There are many Northern husbands who still love and treat their daughters-in-law as their own children, ready to protect and understand the past as well as their children's careers. Condemning misguided views like OgeNus's is necessary to protect women's values, but it also needs to be vigilant so as not to fall into the trap of regional discrimination. Whether the mother-in-law relationship is good or not depends on the tolerance and culture of behavior of each individual, not on geographical background. Let love take the place of harsh prejudices, so that the real home is a place to return to instead of a battlefield of old egos.

Phuong Oanh's mother revealed an "interactive" clip of teaching her daughter-in-law, Phuong Oanh spoke out about her shocked mother? Linh Trần10:39:39 06/02/2026Social networks are constantly abuzz with a series of videos recording a sharp conflict between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, attracting special attention from the public. Especially when the incident is related to actress Phuong Oanh.