Ly Hai - Do not dare to marry because of poverty obsession and perfect marriage with Minh Ha

To get the image of Ly Hai succeeding in his career and being happy with his wife and children, few people know that he was also haunted by poverty. Ly Hai, real name Nguyen Van Hai, born September 28, 1968 in My Tho town in My Tho province (now My Tho city in Tien Giang province) is a Vietnamese singer. He entered the singing field in 1993, but his name only really became famous when he collaborated with manager Vinh Thuyen to launch a series of music albums and soundtracks for the film Life with You in 2001.

Despite the decline, still determined not to give up the job

The time when Ly Hai practiced singing when he was still a student, he sat at school and sang just to earn money to support himself. Only then did Ly Hai officially follow this path. Singing, writing plays, acting, acting as dancers... in general, all kinds of things for the city's young theater troupe.

After being on television for the first time, that time Ly Hai had many terrible shows. He did not dare to think that he would be famous, but fortunately he also had a show to cover his daily life. After that, Ly Hai was at the top of the show. Then the Blue Wave appeared and brought a breath of fresh air to music. Ly Hai at that time pursued dance music, vibrant melodies, so it seemed outdated when Vietnamese music turned to a new page. Ly Hai plummeted very quickly. Just before that, there were so many shows that I couldn't catch my breath, but suddenly I waited and didn't see anyone calling. That silence made him want to quit his job. But Ly Hai still loves his job and is still enthusiastic. A few years later, Ly Hai embarked on a Lifetime with You and became known again, began to receive invitations to the show again.

Unsuccessful, so marry late, happy with wife 17 years younger

When Ly Hai stepped foot into the city, it was also full of food and shelter with empty hands. Ly Hai never even dared to dream of one day having a Honda to ride, nor did he dare to dream of one day getting married, having a wife and children? He just tried his best, tried his best. Some years, when his family can't make money, that New Year takes his brother's clothes and fixes them, but he doesn't have new clothes. That obsession was ingrained in his mind. When he was poor, Ly Hai was most afraid of people looking at him like nothing. Ly Hai does not dream that he is equal to anyone, just wants to not owe anyone. When Ly Hai and Minh Ha found out, at that time his wife was too young, in her first year of university. So if you want to get married, you have to wait 4 years for her to graduate. After graduating, Ha went to England to study for a master's degree for 2 years. So Ly Hai waited, knew each other for 6 years before getting married.

When the whole family heard that Ly Hai followed the artistic path, they were also afraid, afraid of flying and hurting themselves and others. In the countryside, family matters are important, every little bit, she urges to get married, get married, and if she doesn't have money, she goes back to her mother's hometown to take care of her. Every time he comes home, he dare not say that many times are difficult. His family asked if he could do business, he said he could. But in reality, in a rented house, it is difficult to see the grave but dare to speak. Every time he visits home, he haunts questions about his girlfriend and marriage.

For Ly Hai, the biggest achievement he has is a happy home with four children - two boys, two girls, and a beautiful, skillful wife. Ly Hai and his wife built a family by fully respecting each other. Trusting his wife, he entrusted her to manage the money and act as a "key boxer" in the house.

The director said that his wife is rarely jealous because she believes in her husband, even though his job has to go far and contact many beautiful people. On the set, he only talked to actresses when he needed to guide them in acting. The scene just cut, he avoids standing close so as not to cause misunderstandings. Every occasion on the red carpet, next to him is rarely missing the silhouette of his wife. It is known that Minh Ha graduated with a Master's degree in International Commercial Law from the University of Leicester, England. She is recruited by many foreign law firms with a salary of several thousand dollars a month. After working for half a year, she quit her job and stayed at home to work as a rearguard for her husband to encroach on the direction of the director. She encouraged him to boldly make his first film - Flip Face 1. Having available English, she helped him translate filmmaking materials from abroad. Many nights, she stayed up all night with her husband reviewing scripts and consulting.

17 years older than each other, Ly Hai and his wife always compensate and fill each other's shortcomings. Aged appearance, the director's personality is lively and vivacious, in contrast to his wife's calm and quiet demeanor. If something is not satisfied, they choose to have a frank conversation. They give each other time to think through the problem, instead of rushing to blame, avoid leading to difficult to see face later. Having lived together for a long time, he learned from experience. When anger should not be solved just to satisfy the ego, but to let the anger decrease, we will be more discerning. Since getting married, Ly Hai has halved his ego. When he was young, he was playful, every time he went to the show, he just liked to hang out with his friends. When he got married, no matter how busy he was, he went home to eat with his wife and children, giving up the hobby of playing snooker. His wife is not good at cooking, so he hires a maid to help her relieve her labor and focus on taking care of her children. With his wife by his side, Ly Hai's business is more developed. In addition to film production, he is in the business of producing petrol tanks, buying land with his relatives, and opening a market in Long An

Ly Hai and his wife share the same view of love but do not pamper their children. His children are sent to public schools, the tuition is not too high, but they still develop smartly. He also does not spend a lot of money raising children. He said that the older children's clothes are for the younger children to wear, and the toys are shared. Ly Hai and his wife moved to a new house on the outskirts of Ho Chi Minh City, with a spacious campus for their children to play. He trained the children to dig the soil, grow vegetables, water the plants. On the terrace, he grows a large vegetable rig and often harvests fruits and vegetables with his children. He and his wife want the children to have an experience-rich childhood like rural children, instead of living like the children of famous people. He and his wife always thought for their children to live, not for wealth.

Actively doing charity to help people in need

Ly Hai - Minh Ha often spends time doing charity work. Ly Hai always participates in the monthly activities of the charity fund 'Sympathy Heart' organized by him and members of his Fan Club. Previously, when the Central region was flooded, Ly Hai and his wife took practical actions to join hands, calling for support to help the Central people. Ly Hai also shared that he and his wife almost quarreled many times because of this. As an artist, he has a sentimental heart. In some cases, seeing this situation so pitiful, he wanted to give more. But with the money he and his wife kept as sponsors, he had calculated in advance to be able to share it with many difficult households. When you give more in one place, it means that the other place will lose that support. Many times, the couple has a conflict, but in the end, they still make a decision to be able to share equally in their ability. And in difficult cases, after completing the trip, if he and his wife can call for more or pocket money, then come back to help later.

Drama money for charity, statement recently is still a story that has received a lot of attention and controversy from the audience. Netizens suddenly "digged" a conversation between the couple Ly Hai - Minh Ha when mentioning the statement of the amount that the sponsor once sent to the male singer and his wife to support the people in the Central region during this period. flood. Specifically, when Ly Hai and his wife publicly stated the amount of money transferred by the sponsor, a netizen left a comment that there was no need for a statement. At this time, Ly Hai's wife immediately responded: "I still do that now, it's okay. I have to thank everyone for waiting for me. Just put the opposite position and transfer a large amount of money. I don't know if there's a problem, but no one asked me for a statement. If you think it's necessary, just do it."

It can be seen that because they do not have to be entangled in any controversy about money, Ly Hai and his wife have openly disclosed the amount of money after a volunteer trip to support the Central people, and this action has received a lot of attention. audience praise. During the call to raise money for charity, singer Ly Hai and his wife received 6 billion VND, then both printed detailed and clear statements of more than 200 pages.

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