H.OT: Comedian Xuan Bac's wife harshly scolds the couple who do not want to have children: "Strange thinking"

The wife of the elite artist Xuan Bac, Nguyen Hong Nhung, opposes the couple's idea of not wanting to have children in Hanoi.

After sharing her views on not wanting to have children to spend time traveling and enjoying life. The couple Trinh Nam Thai (31 years old) and Pham Bich Ngoc (31 years old) caused a fierce controversy. On social media, there are two different battle lines, one part thinks that the young couple is living too selfishly, engrossed in finding joy for themselves but forgetting the responsibility for the family. Children are an invisible string that helps maintain happiness and create sustainability in accordance with the natural laws of marriage. Different from the above harsh thoughts, many Netizens support the couple to live according to their own ideals.

They argued, having children or not is the choice of each family, as long as they feel comfortable about it. In fact, many marriages fall into the abyss even though the children are even. Not to mention, the increasing pressure of health, economy, illness ... day 1 is also the reason why young couples are afraid to have new members.

In the midst of the controversy, there is no sign of cooling down. On her personal Facebook page, Nguyen Hong Nhung - the wife of comedian Xuan Bac, angrily criticized the ideas of Trinh Nam Thai and his wife Pham Bich Ngoc. Having a marriage of 15 years and giving birth to 3 beautiful children, the judge's wife "Thank God you're here" frankly said: "Just try to stand on the shoulder of your mother-in-law, or there are two sisters in the family. my brother got married like this and then closed the sentence without giving birth.... See if he has the courage to "support". Full of half-time online humanitarian support. It's easy to support. Condemn so the kids don't learn how to live for themselves, thinking weird. In short, everyone who supports it is just as weird as them. Finally. Support to take it home and support it."

Below the article, Hong Nhung is not afraid to respond to some netizens who disagree with her:

"That's my business. Should or shouldn't be my business. I'll just analyze it myself. It's necessary to condemn the map that doesn't give birth. As for what other people say, I'll answer them. Don't combine 1 comment to answer all of them because it's really not straight."

Finally, the bottom line for disagreeing with the idea of no birth for fear of leaving sequelae. Xuan Bac's wife continued to write: "People have analyzed too much. The reason for not having children is not convincing. In the end, don't over-analyze."

Having known each other through the game since 2008, Mr. Thai said with a smile that his life partner is "my Audition wife". After years of being a soul mate, understanding the other's personality so well that he didn't need to say it, until 2017, Mr. Thai decided to propose to his wife on the top floor of a building. Ngoc nodded in agreement, but she said a sentence that made him remember forever: "I don't want to give birth, but when the husband wants, the wife will think".

Of course, Mr. Thai knew that his wife said that because he wanted to follow her will and what her personality was like, he was definitely the one who understood her best. And the decision not to have children was implicitly understood and made by both immediately after the marriage proposal.

"The idea of not having children came from when I was young, watching a documentary about childbirth, seeing women giving birth in pain and leaving many wounds on my b.ody. Then when I grew up, I saw Mother takes care of her husband, takes care of children hard, has to trade many things, has no time for herself and social relationships. Fortunately, my husband is the one who is more important to his wife than having children, he always respects my preferences and decisions," Ms. Ngoc confided.

The couple both work in the travel industry, so each trip always makes the couple full of energy. On the roads, the people you have met, their own experiences have made them change a lot, become quieter, more mature. According to Ngoc's observation, her husband is the one who thinks often, and she is the one who rarely thinks about negative things.

Therefore, the epidemic season gives Mr. Thai more time to sit down with himself, reflect, and learn more. The two brothers and sisters still keep the habit since falling in love, every day spend 1-2 hours to confide in each other because in Thai's opinion, women who want a divorce are all tears that cannot be solved. satisfactorily resolved his feelings and he chose to settle the glass of water first, not letting it stagnate.

Mr. Thai shared: "I don't feel selfish because I think first of all about my parents, as well as spend a lot of time sharing it with my parents. Everyone can do many things well at the same time, so they leapfrog. , getting married, having children and I'm just slowly learning to love my wife day by day and want to do this in the best way.Some of my friends asked about my decision not to have children, I gave a math problem about life. me.

Each year we plan to only go to 3 countries to explore across the country. With such an intention, if I want to go to all 200 countries in the world, I will be 100 years old when I reach the finish line. I'm joking, So how can I give birth? You solve the problem, I will think again. We each have our own dreams, we don't dream of being famous, we dream of mountains and rivers, we dream of going to different lands.

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