Hoang Oanh complains at 10 o'clock at night washing dishes, Thanh Thao has to do from A to Z, the pressure of marriage when coming to the US

In the early days of coming to the US, Thanh Thao was aware that she had to integrate herself into life, so no matter how big or small the job was, she took care of it herself.

In the past few days, the news that runner-up MC Hoang Oanh confirmed her divorce from her husband made many people regret. Everyone thought, after the fateful path of youth. This will be a happy stop for the beautiful, famous, smart legs of Vietnamese showbiz. In an interview with the press, Hoang Oanh first revealed the hidden corner of her marriage after 2 years of living together. The conflict started slowly from geographical distance, cultural differences, leading to two couples not speaking the same language. In particular, during the pregnancy of her first child, Hoang Oanh had to give birth alone in Vietnam without her husband by her side. Not to mention, the risk of preterm birth makes the female MC seriously depressed.

In September 2020, Hoang Oanh defied the time of Covid-19 to fly with her son to Singapore to reunite with her foreign husband. When the whole small family reunited, things were not as she had imagined, even though she had prepared herself mentally without help like in Vietnam. "The most miserable day was the day I went to Singapore. I just took care of the kids and did the housework. I didn't have time for myself. Every day 9 or 10 at night, I also stood washing dishes... Until one day I was too stressed. , I told my husband that I can't do that anymore, I don't feel comfortable, I don't have my own life. only receive positive energy" - Hoang Oanh once shed tears thinking about the past.

Sharing about the time when living in a foreign land, Hoang Oanh once admitted that he was very tired because he did not have the opportunity to develop, do the work he liked, but he buried his head in housework all day: At first, I was stressed. and tired of taking care of everything in foreign countries alone. I get up at 7am to prepare for a new day, rotating from taking care of children to cleaning and cooking. At night, I stayed up to look after the children. Or when my husband and children are sick, I take care of everything alone. I can barely do other activities or force me to take advantage of the two hours when my baby naps

Listening to MC Hoang Oanh's confessions, many women expressed their sympathy because this is a story that does not belong to anyone. Most people believe that in any situation, a wife should learn to be self-sufficient and financially independent to be ready to integrate in any environment. Following the stream of events, recently, singer Thanh Thao also shared the difficulties when accepting to leave Vietnam to start a new life in the country of the Chinese flag. Different from the image of luxury and splendor when still in the country. "Doll" Thanh Thao fully transforms into a married woman. All were strange, initially difficult, but with the love of her husband and children, the desire to build a happy home helped her overcome. According to the sharing line, the female singer is living a happy and happy life with her family. And one of the factors that helps her achieve this is thanks to her kind, kind husband, smart, obedient children, who make her feel happy.

Netizens expressed their admiration for Thanh Thao and felt lucky instead that she found a happy place. However, someone also called MC Hoang Oanh's name in the singer's post.

Thanh Thao confided ":

"The day I left Vietnam for the US, the aura was left behind, ready to do everything from cleaning and sweeping the house, going to the market to cook rice, washing dishes, taking out the trash... to the difficult part. The best thing for me is driving, but I still have to do everything myself.

Because in the US, it is not necessarily enough money to hire a maid or a driver for many different reasons. So when you have decided to live abroad, you will definitely have to put the star on your shoulder, adjust to your new life, adjust to being an ordinary woman, without servants like you used to be. happy in Vietnam.

Then having children, taking care of children since birth, staying up with them all night, diapering all day is normal. When the children are older, taking them to school, picking them up, feeding them, and teaching them to do homework must be taken care of by themselves, but hiring a nanny is not easy.

Don't say it's hard to hire someone with money, but there are many reasons why you can't keep a nanny in the house unless families with grandparents, parents, siblings help each other. A little bit better, every week, a Mexican will come to the house to clean up, take care of the garden, cut the lawn, have a babysitter to take care of the children for a few hours for the parents to go to work if the work requires going to the company every day. I am too young to go to kindergarten. So I decided to live in a foreign country, no matter who I was, I had to adapt and integrate to not be stressed.

The daily stresses of work, the conflicts of two people who disagree in language, culture, thinking, interests, along with the daily difficulties of all expenses while living abroad will make life easier. Married life caused many problems.

I also fell into deadlocks in life, also tormented myself why I chose this path, also many times I got sick of the star, also had conflicts that seemed difficult to solve until looking back, I found myself luckier than a lot of people. So sometimes you have to know how to yield, endure, and consider to stay happy.

Hoang Oanh shared about her current relationship with her husband after announcing the divorce Nắng06:36:41 16/04/2022Although the divorce has been confirmed, Hoang Oanh and her husband still follow each other on social networks. Recently, Hoang Oanh apologized and asked for everyone's understanding when she shared that she and her husband were in the process of getting a divorce. About the...