Miss Thu Hoai - A miserable, happy childhood after 2 hell marriages

Miss Thu Hoai was born in 1976, she was known to many people when she was crowned Miss World Vietnamese Lady in 2012, before that she was also known as a successful businessman with a chain of restaurants with beauty stores. Currently, Thu Hoai has a fulfilling life both financially and in a happy marriage. But few people know that in order to have a Thu Hoai in the present, she has experienced a miserable childhood and a tearful marriage.

Dropped out of school because of the poor family, went to Taiwan to make a living

Thu Hoai once had an intense and reckless childhood because of great losses. Thu Hoai said that she grew up in a wealthy family with her father working in oil and gas and her mother managing a chain of wholesale clothing stores. As a "silver spoon" child, her life was suddenly thrown into a dark quagmire due to rifts from her parents. Having lived a rich life, Thu Hoai had to raise her hand to ask for every penny of her relatives to pay tuition fees.

Thu Hoai once shared: "Every Monday morning, I have to skip school because I'm afraid of everyone's eyes". Unable to bear the poverty, Thu Hoai dropped out of school and started washing dishes at restaurants day after day to feed three young children. Thu Hoai said, the only warmth that her father left for her was the words "If you eat well, you will be full, if you are smart, you will be warm" in a handwritten letter before saying goodbye. Diligently washing dishes, Thu Hoai suddenly met a Taiwanese man who offered to help her have a chance to make a living. With the rebelliousness of her youth, Thu Hoai was not afraid or afraid that others would tempt her and went straight to Taiwan. Working day - going to school at night, Thu Hoai quickly opened her own Vietnamese restaurant when she was less than 21 years old.

However, Thu Hoai always kept in mind that there was no better success than in her homeland, so she sold all her possessions, quit her studies, and returned to Vietnam. Three years after returning to do business in her hometown, Thu Hoai lost all her capital, she had to sell her Honda car and borrow more to start over. Not long after that, Thu Hoai entered the Miss Lady contest with the desire to become the face of her own brand. Currently, her brand has a good name in the market, but in her heart, she always has regrets because she left her studies. However, she understands that, there are many paths to success outside of education, it depends a lot on your own efforts and efforts. Thu Hoai believes that it was the miserable days of childhood that helped her stand up to the challenges and difficulties on the way of life.

Experiencing 2 hell marriages

Miss Thu Hoai confided that her life had two extremely terrible stages that not everyone could endure and go through. Thu Hoai choked back and confided: "At that time in Taiwan, my first husband married someone who worked in my restaurant, and they had a very unethical lifestyle. They did what they had to do. and had to suffer. My husband controlled me because I didn't have a document (green card). I don't have my nationality but I left Vietnam for a long time and now I don't know what to do. Here I live like a tree. mistletoe, by the time I have to get a certificate from my husband to stay, how many years have I built but nothing left."

That hellish life continued until Thu Hoai caught her husband and mistress together, thanks to this reason she won custody of the children. At that time, all the money she earned was used to hire lawyers. In the end, because it was too expensive and did not care, Thu Hoai "doed the risk" to carry her child straight to her hometown. Leaving behind all her assets and the restaurant she built, the beauty used the remaining capital to set up a small beauty salon in Vietnam. However, the first relationship is not the only "marriage hell" of the businesswoman because then she continues to encounter an inappropriate man. This man does not do any business but stays at home to help his wife, while Thu Hoai goes to school, works and takes care of the family. Seems to be inferior to his wife, he often uses violence to cover his weaknesses. She recounted: "At night, my children heard the sound of fighting, beating things so much that they were afraid to cover themselves with blankets."

Witnessing her mother being beaten by her stepfather, Phuc Tin - Thu Hoai's first son was heartbroken. However, because he was too young at that time, the boy only knew how to close the door and wait for the noise to stop before he dared to go out and ask his mother. Phuc Tin said: "Every time like that, I'm very scared. Since I was a kid, I've always thought, why don't you stay together. If you don't like it, don't live together anymore. When you grow up, you will understand that there are many things involved. to each other". Listening to her son's confession and remembering the old pain, Miss Thu Hoai could not hold back her emotions. She burst into tears and shared, "After listening to my son's share, I also agreed that I would no longer stay, but from the moment I said that, the tragedy became worse because people knew they wanted to leave them. I didn't have a relationship or family around then, that person saw that no one was with me, so I dared to do it, so I had to calm down to lure him back to my family and children. I also gave myself a deadline. How many years will it take to free myself?"

Experiencing two failed marriages, what Thu Hoai regrets, most painfully, has caused her children to have an incomplete childhood, she confided: "The husbands I choose are the things that I feel sorry for the children because bringing that person back without being decent to them. It's not what I'm doing is sacrificing for my children, it's what I'm responsible for." Disagreeing, Hong Van affirmed that most mothers are willing to sacrifice, wishing their children to be happy and Thu Hoai is no exception.

Full happiness with young husband

Miss Thu Hoai announced that she became the legal wife of Tri Tong after registering her marriage in the US. It is known that Thu Hoai's husband was born in 1986, 10 years younger than her and is also a businessman. Thu Hoai told about her decision to register for marriage in the US: "The day I became someone's wife. I didn't even think that the day I officially became someone's wife would come so suddenly and indescribably. Without time to prepare anything, without watching, not choosing the date, not even the formalities, all Tri and I did was just sign the marriage certificate. After a few hours, neither of them had thought about this story and as usual, had a bit of a fight at breakfast."

Talking about deciding to register for marriage after a long time dating, Thu Hoai believes that fate has changed for her and her boyfriend decides everything. Miss Vietnam Global 2012 confided: "And for me, after a moment of surprise, I realized that it was a gift. Thanks to the years of love and sharing, I am ready to say goodbye to life. I'm single."

Miss Thu Hoai accepted to date Tri Tong from 2015. At first, she kept this relationship a secret and limited her appearance with her boyfriend in front of the crowd. Both do not want personal matters to attract the attention of the public. After all, luckily, both still found a sweet and peaceful fulcrum in the other half. Tri Tong's kindness has linked love. She admits that she is not perfect, has many flaws. Stressful work always makes Thu Hoai irritable, impatient and sometimes behave emotionally. If Tri Tong responded to her with the same attitude, things would be much worse. But he chose to be tolerant, calm and loving to treat her.

Her boyfriend proves her sincere love and is always a companion, supporting her in work, life and even charity projects. That makes Thu Hoai feel very proud because she has a serious relationship and at the same time is supported by her children. She is also comfortable sharing her love story with the media. After many ups and downs, many viewers and colleagues expect the mother of three children to have a perfect wedding with her younger boyfriend after a long time of attachment.

Hoa hậu Thu Hoài lần đầu trải lòng sau khi ly hôn chồng doanh nhân: Yêu bản thân nhiều hơn Yang Mi08:03:52 19/08/2023Sau khi xác nhận đã chính thức ly hôn với ông xã doanh nhân sau 7 năm bên nhau, hoa hậu Thu Hoài cho biết, bản thân cô biết yêu thương bản thân nhiều hơn, dành thời gian đi đó đây, học hỏi những điều mới mẻ thay vì chỉ biết ủ rủ.