Dam San - 'Miss Bolero': Divorced, left the house empty-handed with a child less than 2 years old

For a woman after a divorce, walking out of the house with empty hands and a child less than 2 years old like Dam San, it is a journey full of hardships.

Singer Dam San was born in 1987 in Quang Binh in a family of 6 siblings. Dam San graduated from information technology, worked in medicine before becoming a singer. Dam San started her singing career with revolutionary, country music, but the music that brought her closer to the public was bolero.

After the contest "Solo with Bolero 2017" and "Singer of love song 2018", Dam San became more known. Thanks to her beautiful appearance and ideal height, Dam San was loved by the audience and nicknamed "Miss Bolero". At the "Voice Battle Floor" contest season 3, episode 1, she won spectacularly and left a deep impression on the audience.

However, "Miss Bolero" also experienced many events in her private life. In particular, the biggest event of Dam San was the break-up in his first marriage. Because at that time, Dam San's decision not only affected her but also her daughter's life.

Singer Dam San is favored by the audience with the nickname "Miss Bolero" because her appearance is not inferior to her beauty.

"Women only choose divorce when they are on the same road"

Dam San confided in the program Where is Happiness: "Women only choose to divorce when they are on the same road, there is no other choice. At that stage, the conflict reached the extreme. Some days, I live in a state of thinking all the time.

One is to get rid of this marriage so that I can watch my children grow up tomorrow. The second is the end of life. Then I thought, if it ended like that, who would I leave the baby for? Because I was afraid that I would suffer without a mother, so I chose to divorce. I want when he grows up, he will keep the beautiful pictures of his father."

For a woman after a divorce, walking out of the house with empty hands and a child less than 2 years old like Dam San, it is a journey full of hardships. It is not starting from zero but from a number ... negative.

After finding a room in a motel, after days of asking friends for too much, Dam San took the phone to call his mother in the countryside, asking her to come take care of her grandchildren so that she could go to work. Because, if she kept hugging, she wouldn't be able to go to work.

"Receiving the phone, my mother immediately packed up and moved in with me. In fact, when I had the most difficulty, my family was the place to cling to. I felt sorry for my parents and daughter a lot.

The hardship and suffering that time, I never want to go through again. But when the incident happened, I just thought, I have to work, have to earn money to raise my children and make up for them. I think that is the motivation for me to overcome that time and event," Dam San said.

Dam San went through many difficulties and hardships after his first marriage broke up. Raising a child alone with empty hands is an obsession that the female singer never wants to repeat...
She further confided: "My thoughts during that period were careless, only knowing how to work, earn money and take care of my children. Watching my mother take care of her children and grandchildren, I felt very guilty. At that time, I thought, For many years, I have lived so superficially, I have to live so that I can take care of my parents and children.

Therefore, in addition to my main job at the hospital, I sell goods online, go to events, weddings, whatever makes money, I can do it for real.

"Take another step" because the mother-in-law is too kind

After that event, Dam San didn't think she would come to anyone anymore, but fate pushed her to meet her current husband. Dam San's husband works in the field of media and advertising. Thanks to a working trip together, they became friends. Through conversations, they find sympathy in each other and stick together at times.

However, the reason why Dam San decided to marry him was because his mother-in-law... was too kind. "The reason I chose him, at first was not because of him, but because of his mother. He was not too rich, not too handsome, not too outstanding, but gave me and my mother a sense of security. And especially, Grandma gave my mother and me a family.

His mother was very tolerant, kind, and welcomed me with the love of a close relative. My mother let my daughter feel that she has a real family. That's the biggest reason for me to decide to come to you," Dam San said.

After going through the breakup, once being a single mother to the present peaceful life, Dam San realized that, even if she had to get divorced, she had to know how to love herself.

"I hope the women who have been broken will be strong. No one lives for me, no one loves me more than myself. If you have children, you are the biggest asset to hold and love when walking. Get out of that marriage. Just try, be strong, confident, love with all your heart, then you will have your own happiness."

For the female singer, happiness is not a great achievement in her career or wealth with cars and brands, but happiness is waking up every morning, not having to worry and think too much. And, loved ones around are healthy. For her, that is the most peaceful happiness.

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