Hoang Nam Tien's daughter wrote a farewell letter, revealing her father's personality, blaming 1 thing

The sudden passing of Mr. Hoang Nam Tien, Vice Chairman of the Board of Trustees of FPT University, has left infinite grief. Recently, his eldest daughter, Hai Nhu, posted an emotional letter on her personal page.

The letter choked up: "Why don't you wait for me to come back..."

Hai Nhu's article began with a sad question: "Dad, I came to visit this father... Why don't you wait for me to come back?" Through the confidants, readers feel the deep affection and special bond between the father and son. Hai Nhu not only considers Mr. Hoang Nam Tien as a father but also his closest friend.

"Dad is not a perfect person, nor is he always the leader or idol that everyone sees. To me, my dad is simply the best friend I've had since I was born," she wrote. Hai Nhu also revealed that although Mr. Tien is decisive at work, he is very soft in love. Although she knows that her father may be at fault with many people, if she is chosen again, she will always want to be his daughter.

An ironic detail in the letter is that Hai Nhu admits that she is the closest person to her father, but she is the one who is the farthest away, knows the last news and comes back to the end. "My brother every time he causes a complete disaster, he lures me to negotiate with the three households because according to him, I am the closest to her among them. But when my father left, I was the one who was the farthest, the last to know, the last to come back...", she wrote. However, Hai Nhu believes that his father is not disappointed, because he always wants his daughter to live happily and freely.

At the end of the post, Hai Nhu revealed that his father would return to his final resting place in Nghe An, where General Hoang Dan (grandfather) and Mrs. An Vinh (grandmother) were located. Her farewell was full of hope: "I don't believe in reincarnation or Buddha. But if I get it again, I still want to bother my father to raise this anti-social child. But next time, wait for me to come back."

The philosophy of "don't force your child to do what you can't do"

Hai Nhu's confidants also shed more light on Mr. Hoang Nam Tien's different parenting philosophy. Previously, he shared with VietNamNet a memorable story about his daughter. When Hai Nhu was admitted and became the class leader of the Mathematics class, Hanoi - Amsterdam High School for the Gifted, Mr. Tien, a former student specializing in Mathematics, made a bold decision: let his son leave the specialized school.

This decision made even his former teacher (then the principal of the Amsterdam school) wonder. But Mr. Tien's reason is very simple: he does not want his children to have to study from morning to night, living under the pressure of achievement.

Mr. Tien said that when he left the specialized school, his daughter had time to live with other passions such as reading Japanese comics, cosplay (dressing up as cartoon characters). "I never force my child to try to become a valedictorian, or get a really high score. I want my children to learn and live with their passions. Later, my daughter is still grateful to me for that," Mr. Tien shared.

Dan Tri newspaper reported that in 2016, Mr. Hoang Nam Tien talked about his controversial decision in the program Good Evening of VTC14 channel. According to the Vice President, he has been very invested in his children's studies such as inviting the best teachers to tutor his children. His daughter is also an excellent student.

However, the academic pressure of the specialized school makes his son no longer have time for personal interests, as he described: "Since the day I came to Amsterdam, my daughter has almost no summer, studying every day, morning, afternoon, evening, no Saturdays and Sundays, the number of extra classes is extremely large...".

The Vice Chairman of the Council of FPT University affirmed that it was leaving the specialized school that day that helped his daughter have a good life as she is now. He also gave advice to parents: "Don't force your child to do what you can't do. My child is my friend. Let me live by their dreams."

The heart letter of the eldest daughter and the previous sharing of Mr. Hoang Nam Tien have clearly portrayed the image of a father who is not only great in career but also humane in life, always respects and creates conditions for his children to live as themselves.

Hoang Nam Tien died, Phuong My Chi said a sad sentence, revealing a promise that had not been fulfilled in time Nguyễn Tuyết10:04:36 01/08/2025The news that Mr. Hoang Nam Tien, Vice Chairman of the Board of Trustees of FPT University, passed away suddenly at the age of 60 has caused shock and infinite grief in the business, technology world as well as the Vietnamese entertainment industry.