Singer Ha My: Wife tried to tattoo Hoai Linh's face, got into trouble for slappin.g Hong Loan's face

Born in 1978 into a famous artistic family - her parents are the cai luong artists Tan Dat - Kim Ha, her uncle is the famous singer Thai Chau - Ha My, who continued the family tradition early. She became famous for her role as Quach Hai Tho in the play "Bao Cong Vo Lo Gach" at a very young ag.e, before officially turning to singing.

During the 1990s, Ha My was one of the most sought-after singers on the music scene in the South. Her career took off quickly, but the early spotlight made her falter. Ha My admitted that she had fallen into a life of partying, hangin.g out at bars, and using stimulants. That loss of direction made her gradually lose her place in the music industry and her career went downhill.

In 2017, the name Ha My was suddenly mentioned again in the media when she publicly announced her 2-year relationship with comedian Hoai Linh. The incident caused a stir not only because of the male artist's reputation but also because of Ha My's emotional and sincere sharing.

"In 2017, I participated in the game show Tinh Bolero Hoan Ca. Honestly, it was Hoai Linh who helped me compete. The information I shared on the show was approved by Hoai Linh" - Ha My said on Tuoi Tre Cuoi in 2024.

According to the female singer, they met when she was only 16 years old - a young star who was shining, and Hoai Linh was just starting his career. After moving to the US and making a name for himself, Hoai Linh returned to Vietnam to meet her again, took the initiative to take care of her, pick her up and drop her off to perform, and even introduced her to his family. Their love was known to many artists in the industry such as Kim Ngoc, My Chi...

She said: "In 1989, I was a famous singer in Vietnam. Meanwhile, around 1993, Hoai Linh was a budding comedian overseas. So at that time, I didn't know who Hoai Linh was. But Hoai Linh really loved my voice.

It was not until Hoai Linh collaborated with artist Van Son and became a famous comedy duo overseas that I started to pay attention to him. I watched Hoai Linh’s skits and liked the way he performed on stage, his natural, charming comedy. I admired and idolized him from then on (smiles).

The first time Hoai Linh returned to Vietnam, he asked singer Le Quyen to connect with me. Le Quyen and I are close colleagues. He hinted that there was a famous overseas comedian who wanted to meet me but did not share his identity. I guessed in my head that it was probably Hoai Linh and was eager to "meet him".

That night, I performed at Bach Tung Diep Stage. Hoai Linh came, he did not go inside but stood at the base of a tree waiting for me for many hours.

I had just finished performing when Hoai Linh came to greet me and gave me a big bouquet of flowers. My first impression of Hoai Linh was that he was a cute, thin, tall person. However, when talking to him, I felt that he was quite serious and difficult at work.

Even though we just met, Hoai Linh and I felt like we had known each other for a long time. We were both very comfortable and happy. I am a gir.l but I did not show any shyness or embarrassment. We were not afraid to hold hands and hug each other warmly in front of the audience and friends.

After that, Hoai Linh drove me on a Honda Dream II. At that time, anyone who rode this bike was considered to be very good and fierce. He said he borrowed the bike from a friend to "flirt with girls".

The two of us walked around many places in Saigon and then stopped at a coffee shop on Nguyen Thien Thuat Street. At that time, there was Ms. Hong Loan (daughter of artist Bao Quoc) and many other artists. We talked happily and took many souvenir photos.

The first time we met, we felt that this was a love arranged by God, the feeling was hard to describe. Perhaps the mutual admiration of two artistic souls, combined with love at first sight, helped Hoai Linh and I bond "dizzyingly fast".

The next day, Hoai Linh flew back to the US. We started a long-distance relationship."

"He comfortably introduced me to his parents and siblings. Even though we were in a long-distance relationship, we always cared and asked about each other. Therefore, our relationship did not cool down because of the geographical distance, but became closer and closer" - source Tuoi Tre Cuoi.

However, that two-year first love ended when Ha My was 18. She revealed that she herself had proactively withdrawn because she felt unworthy of falling into a life of indulgence.

"I took the initiative to leave and cu.t of.f contact with Linh, but he never said he wanted to break up with me" - Ha My shared on Women Online.

In response to opinions that she was the third person who interfered in Hoai Linh's marriage, Ha My once affirmed: "Anh Linh took the initiative to come find me. I think that maybe at that time, his married life had problems. If something happened, he would come back to find me, not that I was the one who knew that someone was happy and went to 'steal the husband'. I hat.e that. A person's morality does not allow me to do that" - quoted from Vietnamese Family.

In particular, Ha My once attracted public attention when she tattooed Hoai Linh's portrait on her chest and his name on her arm. This is considered a symbol of affection that she has kept for many years.

"I got the tattoo after we broke up and Hoai Linh knew about it. I want to say that I remember my love for Hoai Linh very well. Until now, I still consider Hoai Linh an important person, number one in my life.

Many people ask me if I intend to remove my tattoos to move on. I have never thought about that, I have never regretted anything I have done. When I got the tattoo, I thought it through, not out of impulsiveness or a moment of youth.

I think if a man comes into my life in the future, they have to accept the past.

But honestly, I have to face the reality that it is rare for a man to accept seeing someone else's face when he is close to the person he loves. If I am unlucky, I may have to live alone for the rest of my life" - according to Tuoi Tre Cuoi.

Although they had shared that they planned to get married when they reunited in 2017, the plan did not come to fruition due to Hoai Linh’s unexpected events. Since then, Ha My has returned to a quieter life. On social media, she rarely mentions the past, only posting clips of her performances and a few moments of her daily life.

However, in a recent singing practice video, the tattoo of Hoai Linh's face on the female singer's body is still clearly visible - as a reminder that there are loves, even if they are not complete, that are forever imprinted in the hearts of those who remain.

Currently, Ha My lives with her mother in Nha Be district, Ho Chi Minh City. After her heyday, the singer said she accepted her real life and left the spotlight. Recently, she suddenly attracted attention when she and Le Tin, show producer Thuy Le, livestreamed to criticiz.e Vu Linh - Hong Loan's daughter. Her sharing caused quite a bit of controversy.

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