Doan Hai My accused of being disrespectful to her mother-in-law, displaying a rude and contemptuous attitude towards her husband's family?

An LâmDec 23, 2025 at 15:00

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Recently, social media was abuzz with information that Doan Hai My – the wife of defender Doan Van Hau – was accused of having an inappropriate attitude towards her husband's family. Immediately, the 2001-born beauty issued an official response to clarify the truth.

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It all started with an "unsubstantiated" comment.

The incident stemmed from a comment on the TikTok platform, where an account claimed to have spotted Doan Van Hau and his wife traveling with their family in Sa Pa (Lao Cai). This person caused a stir by remarking that Doan Hai My "is not as gentle as everyone thinks" and behaved disrespectfully towards her husband's family. Specifically, the account accused the WAG of yelling at her husband and using harsh language towards her mother-in-law, while being very gentle with her own mother.

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Immediately, this information topped search trends on many platforms. Some "internet detectives" even cited the fact that the Top 20 Miss Vietnam 2022 contestants had checked in at Sa Pa to add credibility to the rumor. Despite the lack of photos or videos as evidence, the post spread rapidly, causing Doan Hai My to receive a lot of unfounded criticism.

Doan Hai My accused of being disrespectful to her mother-in-law, displaying a rude and contemptuous attitude towards her husbands family? - Photo 3

The owner's subtle response

Following the public backlash, Doan Hai My quickly responded in the comments section to clarify the situation. She wrote briefly: "I've never been to Sa Pa with my husband's family," accompanied by a crying face emoji to express her helplessness in the face of the misinformation.

Hai My's response was considered intelligent and direct. By asserting that she had never taken a trip to that location together, she cleverly refuted the entire "eyewitness" story fabricated by the other account, while indirectly defending her honor against baseless accusations.

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The true relationship between Doan Hai My and her mother-in-law.

In fact, anyone who has followed the couple Van Hau and Hai My for a long time can easily see that their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is very good. Even when they were dating, Hai My frequently appeared close to Doan Van Hau's mother in the stands, cheering on the footballer. Her father-in-law also publicly praised his daughter-in-law for her politeness and exemplary behavior.

Doan Hai My accused of being disrespectful to her mother-in-law, displaying a rude and contemptuous attitude towards her husbands family? - Photo 5

After marriage and childbirth, this bond has become even stronger: Family support: Doan Van Hau's mother even moved from Thai Binh to Hanoi to help her daughter-in-law take care of her grandson (Minh Dang) in the first few months of his life. Close like mother and daughter: Images of Hai My and her mother-in-law choosing wedding ao dai (traditional Vietnamese dress) or holding hands while traveling show a comfortable and relaxed relationship, without any distance. Simple and filial lifestyle: Whenever she returns to her hometown in Thai Binh, the Hanoi socialite sheds her glamorous image to wear a T-shirt and jeans, helping her mother-in-law clean and prepare meals.

Unnecessary misunderstandings

Some people believe that Hai My prioritizes her maternal family because she and her husband mainly live in Hanoi. However, this is entirely due to the nature of her work and the convenience of caring for her young child. In fact, both her and her husband's families frequently get together on trips, demonstrating a very harmonious relationship between the two families.

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