The mother hugged her crying baby in the middle of the night, knowing the reason no one sympathized

The woman, who has been married for 2 years, went online crying, saying she regretted that she did not find out about her husband's background before returning home. She was not only unsympathetic, but also badly criticized.

Getting married and having children is an important milestone in life, but for many young couples, it is both the beginning of happiness and the departure of heavy economic pressures.

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After marriage, a woman discovered that her family owed 400,000 yuan (about 1.4 billion VND) to buy a house, her in-laws owed 100,000 yuan (nearly 350 million VND), and her "partner's" income was even more worrisome. However, netizens claim that all this debt is due to her.

As night falls, the hustle and bustle of the city gradually subsides, and a house in Shenyang, Liaoning province (China), is still lit up. Li Xiaoyu, 28, hugged his two-year-old daughter and sat on the bed, tears streaming down her face.

Li Xiaoyu and Wang Hao, who married 2 years ago, also soon had a daughter. At first, Xiao Yu thought that she had a happy family, but reality caused her to collapse.

Before getting married, Ms. Li didn't know much about Wang Hao's family's economic situation, only that he had a decent home, so she thought life after marriage would be stable. Until after the birth of the child, spending increased, Xiao Yu's husband did not want to buy necessities for the child, and even let go of the reproach.

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After many heated arguments, the woman asked her husband directly why he was so stingy and he told the truth. It turned out that the in-laws borrowed 150,000 yuan from relatives and friends to pay the first purchase of a house for their son to marry, and the remaining 400,000 yuan Wang Hao had to pay monthly. While his salary is only 7,000 yuan / month (more than 24 million VND), there is not much left after paying off debts and living expenses.

Hearing this, Li Xiaoyu was like being struck by lightning across his ears. She regretted not understanding Wang Hao's family situation in the first place, and regretted that she had not adequately prepared before marriage.

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Huge financial pressures weighed heavily on the woman, during the day she had to take care of her children, go out to find work at night and face the cold words of her husband.

At one point, Xiao Yu wanted to let go of everything, and even intended to divorce. But looking at her daughter's innocent smile, she chose to keep trying. Because knowing that no matter what, the child must give a complete family with full parents.

With the help of friends, Li Xiaoyu found a part-time job. Although the income is small, it can also cover part of the family's expenses. At the same time, she also began to study financial management and make efforts to increase income and reduce expenditures.

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Some time passed, and Li Xiaoyu's efforts finally paid off. Her income gradually increased, life gradually stabilized. At the same time, Wang Hao also realized his mistake and began to diligently shoulder family responsibilities.

Although life has gradually improved, Li Xiaoyu sometimes feels happy. That's why she tearfully recounted her story and posted it on social media.

Immediately, netizens were buzzing about what happened to the young mother Li Xiaoyu. Many people believe that Xiao Yu's use on social media to lament and regret being married shows how "childish and ridiculous" she is.

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Accordingly, they raised the opinion that the failure to find out the husband's family background before marriage was entirely Li Xiaoyu's fault. The debt was largely due to adequate preparations for the marriage of his son. If it hadn't been for the so-called expensive ceremony that the girls demanded, they wouldn't have been in that situation.

Moreover, buying a house with installments is normal in this day and age, prices are escalating, it is difficult to buy outright. Settle down, have a house to settle down first, and then husband and wife pay the debt together. This is called the power of marriage.

In addition, there are also some people who blame the husband for being "incompetent", unable to give his wife and children a sense of material security, causing his wife to have to algae during the time of taking care of young children. But fortunately, the wife was empathetic and striving, not because of the challenge but giving up halfway.

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